The grandparents is the 2nd most excited group of people when a new born has arrived. They want to share as much knowledge as possible base on their personal experiences. They want to share their spare hands, and selflessly contribute to baby sitting.

For my job, I have met many caring grandparents. I felt their joy emanated through their little gestures. 

1. A grandfather worried that his DIL is not producing enough breast milk on day 2 after labor. He decided to buy infant formula from my department. I felt his awkwardness as he tried to explain his needs. Though, lastly, I explained to him and advised him to be patient. :)

2. Two grandmothers, a paternal and another maternal grandmother, came together without the child's parents, to seek advice on how to feed their fussy, but otherwise healthy grandson. They took turn to explain their views and feels, very eagerly but thoroughly. I admired their mutual respect for each other. 

3. A grandmother took up the role as the primary care provider for a 4 year old that was not thriving (Failure to thrive). She followed her daughter and granddaughter to dietetics follow up at my clinic almost every time. She had a lot of worries and even hide some, as found later. I knew she wanted so much to help. I knew she's worried about her own inadequacy, being less educated. Every time I turned my head, I caught her attentiveness to the whole issue. This grandma from a kampung in Perak was too lovely to meet.

4. A grandmother came to me after my talk on feeding group therapy, she has many concerns about her daughter not feeding the grandchild enough food. We chatted. We passed the message to the grandpa who cane late. The old folks were reassured and found some directions. 

The grandparents are truly important people, especially for the young families. Like our Chinese saying, when there's an old granny at home, we have a treasure in house! They bring great help. I feel truly happy for those who have grandparents lending hands as needed.

Happy parenting! Happy communicating well with all in the family!  

this post was first published on 03/01/14
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